whoreaborealis

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September 2026 points

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I lived with a guy who sexually assaulted me for a few years. I made the decision to move in with him a few months after he groped me. traditional justice never felt right to me. my dad was a felon, I’ve been up close and personal with the criminal justice system and it’s effects. but at the same time I couldn’t let myself let this guy just go. losing respect for someone who I looked up to was hard enough. something about the idea of having people hurt me and giving them the cold shoulder has never moved me. it doesn’t feel like restitution until that person has grown, and that change has, in my own experience, been most catalyzed when I am a tangible force in it with them, the pain, chaos, and complication underlying the gravity of the need. grabbing the core of his heart, killing him with my compassion and grace and forgiveness, saying “it’s okay, I trust you not to do it again” as I look him dead in the eye signing the lease, and letting him choke a little on the weight of his own guilt, that was enough for me. Aug 5	167	2	37	17	—	30,100
women, if you’re ever worried about your looks being the thing holding you back from a good relationship don’t fret! I’ve ruined a ton of men’s lives as a mid 😇 Aug 7	244	5	14	1	—	29,300
sexual shame is more unattractive than impotence, if you can’t get it up let’s just not have sex— but if you’ve got a weird ego thing? ick Aug 3	207	3	22	7	—	28,400
how do I stop drinking socially? I keep drinking more than feels good. Aug 4	135	1	58	1	—	26,000
okay looking at this list of words is actually pretty silly “Fractal, Maximum New York, Vibecamp, Cuties, Community Archive, Psychofauna, Whorehole, The Service Guild, Claude Squad, Casa Tilo, Solis, Concrete Kingdom, Vibechella, and ApplyAll” I love that we have created so much, but if you taken any different combination of these words and stick them in a different scene it sounds like absolute gobbledygook Aug 5	94	2	10	2	2× Fractal2× MNY2× Vibecamp2× Cuties2× Comm. Archive2× Psychofauna2× Whorehole2× Service Guild2× Claude Squad2× Casa Tilo2× Solis2× Concrete Kingdom2× Vibechella2× ApplyAll	25,800 12,900 × 2
oh my god, they stole Whorehole https://t.co/DZBS0EdxQd Aug 4	73	0	8	1	2× Whorehole	19,000 9,500 × 2
hiya! it’s my birthday today! If you’ve known me long enough I’d love for you to comment on ways that I’ve changed as you’ve known me (good or bad!) if you haven’t known me for a long time, I’d love for you to tag someone else and compliment them. ✨♥️✨ Aug 16	114	0	34	0	—	18,500
Whorehole tickets are available for presale! shhhh it’s a secret 🤫 dm me for a link if you’re interested Aug 3	65	2	8	0	2× Whorehole	18,000 9,000 × 2
an old friend called Whorehole “the waterboarding conference” today Aug 21	79	0	3	0	2× Whorehole	17,600 8,800 × 2
if anyone would like to join me for a tpot specific feminist reading group over the next year or so, reply here! feminism and race theory are very useful for us because it supplies language for examining systems in which no one necessarily intends to exercise coercion, but unequal stakes, power, and informal dependencies nevertheless persist. I think there’s a ton of overlap that’s useful for all this talk of friendship, sex and gender discourse, and community organization (and all of its components such as curation, status, mutual support networks in the face of systems that fail you, and coordination). the curriculum is designed with the scene in mind. it skips de Beauvoir, Friedan, Butler assuming either you have read it, or it would not appeal to many of you. see reply for the syllabus :) Aug 20	79	1	29	1	—	14,600
one of the major reaons the boyf and I decided things were right between us, is that we solve problems we solve them for good. this sounds a little crazy for a relationship that has had two break ups, but each iteration of our relationship has been constitutionally different being. at the macro and micro levels, when we solve an issue between us, it stays in the past. each past piece of effort has continued to build our intimacy, trust, and love for each other. there are endless problems in relationships, in life. it feels nice to choose someone who i can fix problems with, instead of endlessly circling or necro-ing a relationship we both previously thought was gone. Aug 6	121	2	4	0	—	13,800
many people don’t understand this, but you can get to a point of abused, assaulted, and beaten down that you refuse to allow yourself to be a victim anymore I hit a point in my own frailty, where I went “fuck this, being sad and anxious about this isn’t working”. this was someone who was older than me, who was supposed to be a leader and know what to do, and instead I saw how sad and bereft his own life was through his actions towards me. being the adult in the room meant not allowing this to define me, it meant telling him where he went wrong, it meant stepping up and stopping the emotional wounds in both of us that would perpetuate this kind of shit in both of our lives Aug 5	111	1	7	1	—	13,400
my mom is coming to visit me! I moved out of Ohio almost 8 years ago, and this is the first time she is actually coming to visit and spend time!! Aug 12	113	0	5	0	—	12,600
I could parallel park a train Aug 6	82	7	8	0	—	12,200
i’m just now understanding that maybe earnestness is interpreted differently from men and women. my prevailing social strategy in life has always been to proceed as ultra-earnest. take people and their problems seriously, be honest, couple it with humility and take responsibility for failures and missteps especially when other people point them out. the first time I experienced earnestness fail was in my college band fraternity. I took the rituals and history too seriously, it was cringey, and why was I always making everything so “intense”. l recently found myself giving two friends some social advice to be more earnest. Both sort of bristled saying “but I am”. One says that people don’t really see or believe it in him. It takes a while for people to drop the suspicion and see the earnestness underneath. The other is earnest + sentimental in a way that others perceive as weakness. It threw me for a loop because aside from my (frankly very odd) college experience (where it was a confluence of young adults all projecting on each other), this has typically been a winning strategy for me. I’ve never had my earnestness understood as anything other than kindness even when it’s annoying to other people. Aug 7	97	0	10	0	—	12,000
I think @tasshinfogleman’s Service Guild is one of the coolest projects in our community. I’m really excited for him to be in nyc consistently and host more collective service events. Ive liked the taste of a few that we’ve done already. maybe garbage clean up to show love to our city streets sometime soon? Aug 3	51	0	3	0	2× Service Guild	12,000 6,000 × 2
holy shit, it knows about my tattoo https://t.co/Wu3ihGNECk https://t.co/y5r46wZmZv Aug 17	90	0	8	3	—	11,800
no show should exist beyond 5 seasons, it is the perfect length for any series. you can’t change my mind Aug 12	68	0	18	2	—	11,300
your late 20s are a time to reexperience the developmental wounds of your teen years, and mature them into adulthood. date someone who matches your ideal gf/bf from when you were 16 and realize what a nightmare that is. have a fight with your parents and then learn to empathize with them, listen to the same angst music and alchemize it into a matured continuation of the self. your early 20s are for becoming yourself, and letting your brain finish developing. then you work backwards healing your inner teen & inner child and then become final form adult. Aug 4	96	1	5	0	—	11,200
in an emotionally catatonic society visible grief is subversive Aug 5	69	7	4	3	—	11,000
wow, some people be making up me’s in their head that just straight up do not exist Aug 7	80	5	4	1	—	10,900
there’s nothing “resting” about this bitch face, i can promise you that it’s very active Aug 28	81	5	3	0	—	10,500
❗️nyc homies ❗️ I created a little gpt daily events bulletin! it's tailored to my preferences, so it suggests things like weird art installations, body and movement events, and policy/civics related events around the city. i have it set to highlight 3 different things a day. it rotates thru free to mildly expensive activities in different boroughs and neighborhoods. it also suggests a restaurant or bar near the activity. hmu if you'd also like to recieve the daily suggestions :) Aug 3	75	1	8	0	—	9,700
there is a type of person who will weaponize their shame and sadness against you. they threaten that if you do not have infinite grace, if you make a single misstep with their worries and woes, that they will forever make it your problem https://t.co/teogdMiBel Aug 3	80	1	5	0	—	9,600
how surprised would you be to hear that half of fundraising is being trustworthy and helping the ultra wealthy know how to spend their money https://t.co/IjzCuOeYnY Aug 7	87	0	1	1	—	9,500
Williamsburg? You mean the yuppie striver zoo enclosure we put in Brooklyn? https://t.co/BSUjDRfcqT Aug 27	71	0	9	0	—	9,200
You have to understand, these were the women I looked up to in my formative years (my family calls me Reg/Reggie to this day) https://t.co/QfcPpBLZhQ https://t.co/xTrTdUHyP6 Aug 11	69	0	7	2	—	9,200
if you think I’m happy all the time you’re mistaken. I’m at ease. I love my suffering with arms wide open without glorifying it. i’m loving my fate, i’m taking it on the chin with a grin, i’m in the rage cage, I’m in the cerebral mosh pit, and I’m laughing. stay with the trouble, stay in the groove, move with fluidity around the tension and ride the beast alongside it. it would only be dragging you along anyway Aug 9	76	1	5	0	—	9,200
dear lord, please grant a girl an off the cuff tweet once in a blue moon with minor blowback amen 🙏 Aug 3	79	1	3	0	—	9,100
hating myself meant that I refused to let myself feel ease. when you constantly want to die it’s a constant effort to justify your existence to a rigged jury. pain and suffering and chaos means that there is a reason for you to be alive— bc of course! you must make amends to so and so, you must earn your keep, you owe it out. your self hating masochism is grinding every bit of your own self worth away, while also being the only sliver tethering you to others. Aug 3	73	3	1	0	—	8,700
self portrait https://t.co/VJAX6t5cA8 https://t.co/VOA5eOU4Kb Aug 28	67	0	3	1	—	7,900
will resume tpot towmhalls at the end of this month, @kenthecowboy_ finally time for the delayed “transhumanism, gender fluidity, and waterboarding. let’s talk about the right to experiment on yourself” Aug 22	53	2	6	1	—	7,700
come visit fractal! https://t.co/IILnosOoDe Aug 4	28	1	2	0	2× Fractal	7,600 3,800 × 2
the thing I love about telling this story is how crazy it makes people. I think without knowing me personally, people have a hard time believing that this is even a real situation. the women haters are qting the og post, continuing to shit on me. it underlines that there’s no legal move for women who are wronged to take like oh yeah, the guy who is nearly my dad’s age? who is my colleague, respected in his field? a friend of mine? I should have what… cancelled him? told our hundreds of mutual friends? got him fired from his job? filed a police report? right, but if I had acted punitively instead of focusing on both of our rehabilitation you would have also told me that I was ruining his life. look, he was perfectly fine getting himself fired from his job for flirting with interns after he assaulted me. you can let people hurt themselves on their own actions and be there for them when those people are finally ready to change. I’d wager a bet, a lot those men qting me mad at women are responding to a wound where they have been parentified by immature feminine in their life. you’d think that they’d see a parallel here from my perspective where someone whose role, years, and character in life were supposed to be further developed than mine, and it wasn’t. I took charge. aside from him initially groping me, all of our interactions such as moving in together and being roommates, was all consensual from both parties. unless you think that I bullied a man with grey hairs? Aug 5	50	1	6	2	—	7,400
anyone wanna come over to my place and make perfumes, I already have all the supplies https://t.co/V3TKaR4mJv Aug 5	47	0	10	0	—	7,000
I need everyone to know that @nedsore makes our gc personalized bday spam messages, and it’s the best thing that happens in there https://t.co/BFIa6Uwx15 Aug 17	48	0	5	0	—	6,100
https://t.co/TyXlbnG5nA https://t.co/gDbdeG5n4I Aug 10	48	0	4	0	—	5,900
allowing yourself to be more fickle actually allows yourself to be more flexible Aug 8	48	0	2	0	—	5,500
I have a few friends looking for jobs! Engineer/product types, marketer types, and creative artists types. If you’re looking to hire lmk and I’ll put you in touch! Aug 2	39	3	2	0	—	5,500
#1 — The Tyranny of Vibes Jo Freeman — “The Tyranny of Structurelessness” Cathy Levine — “The Tyranny of Tyranny” #2 — Who Gets to Know Things? Donna Haraway — “Situated Knowledges” Miranda Fricker — selections from Epistemic Injustice #3 — What Even Is a Woman? Sally Haslanger — “Gender and Race: (What) Are They? (What) Do We Want Them To Be?” Iris Marion Young — “Throwing Like a Girl” #4 — The Politics of Desire Amia Srinivasan — “Does Anyone Have the Right to Sex?” / selections from The Right to Sex Gayle Rubin — “Thinking Sex” bell hooks — selections from "The Will to Change" #5 Consent Is Not a Complete Moral Theory Katherine Angel — selections from Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again Catharine MacKinnon — selections from “Sexuality, Pornography, and Method: Pleasure Under Patriarchy” #6 — The Invisible Economy Silvia Federici — “Wages Against Housework” Nancy Fraser — “Contradictions of Capital and Care” #7 — Feminism Invents the Cyborg Shulamith Firestone — selections from The Dialectic of Sex Donna Haraway — “A Cyborg Manifesto” #8 — Family Abolition?! bell hooks — “Revolutionary Parenting” / selections from Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center Sophie Lewis — selections from Full Surrogacy Now #9 — Intersectionality before woke The Combahee River Collective Statement *Kimberlé Crenshaw — “Mapping the Margins” Read the originals rather than discourse about them Week 10 — What Is Liberation For? Audre Lorde — “Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power” bell hooks — selections from All About Love Aug 20	37	0	5	1	—	5,300
I’m coming for you @funplings 😈 https://t.co/rUiqBgnx7u Aug 4	38	0	6	0	—	5,300
I’m glad that I’m post “romanticizing how tragic my life is” Aug 7	47	0	0	0	—	5,000
day 2 of thrips in a 30 plant apartment https://t.co/tc4GNikqIF https://t.co/oYPj5SUDEy Aug 11	36	1	1	1	—	4,700
A group is also made up of individuals. Each group has a group identity and it also has individual identities. You need to filter between the two layers to figure out what’s actually going on Aug 5	40	0	2	0	—	4,700
wait, you’re telling me this liver is chopped Aug 6	38	0	2	0	—	4,500
68 in the apartment freezing!! 72 is sweltering… 69.74? Just right 😎 Aug 14	34	1	2	0	—	4,400
I have a bladder infection, and thrips on my plants, and my mom is coming to visit because Sunday is my birthday so I must clean the apartment otherwise she’ll do it when she gets here instead of spending time with me. 🎶 the hell of minor inconveniences 🎵 https://t.co/c5IXzRECcR Aug 11	33	0	4	0	—	4,400
men do this downward pressure thing, but imo it tends to come out in faux intellectualism. it doesn’t look like smiling compliments. idk. I don’t struggle to shut down relationships w the woman version of this, but I find myself in relationships w/ the male version of this a lot (looking for dads love I suppose) Aug 12	36	0	2	0	—	4,300
for the longest time I refused to look into many symptoms I had because I figured that “normal” healthy meant that i should have zero unique-to-myself issues I gaslit myself believing that any deviation was all in my head. took forever to realize that what is actually normal is every single person having at least one thing that is special & unique to their body/neurology/composition Aug 28	36	0	1	0	—	4,100
what I’ve learned from this is that I am probably a top 10%er for women gamers https://t.co/2DVIl6Oi69 Aug 27	24	0	7	0	—	4,100
It’s @ThinkingBone’s birthday! Everyone say “hbd Skelly” to your favorite male Leo 🦁 Aug 12	20	0	9	0	—	4,100
this is not my body, this is a temple of god. this is not my own, this is the altar of god. Aug 9	34	0	2	0	—	4,100
I love being one of three sisters Aug 31	30	1	2	0	—	4,000
people only listen to clavicular because he is looksmaxxed therein proving his point. inceldom is out https://t.co/tknTIkuLO4 Aug 4	34	0	1	0	—	3,900
I know that you have a particular wound about this, and it wasn’t my intention for you to catch strays with this tweet. In my experience I’ve had people whose shame eats the entire relationship alive, and no amount of my deep well of compassion, empathy, or trying to work thru it with them has helped. It burned me out in the process, and in one case the other parson’s myopic shame still prevents them from seeing my side of the story after years of trying to get them to hear me. Aug 3	29	0	3	0	—	3,800
create the cult inside your heart, create the cult with your ifs parts Aug 8	30	0	2	0	—	3,700
barbie gave me unrealistic dessert expectations :c all my favorite foods come with far too few polygons https://t.co/gxK2MR60li Aug 7	25	1	2	0	—	3,500
problems take a variable amount of time, some issues are one conversation, some take concerted effort, and at least one major problem required us both to break up, walk away, and come back more whole and integrated. people don't generally change who they are. they stay themselves, but overtime they become more so. i imagine this visually as a soundboard. rarely do people move horizontally to turn on new characterisitcs that were not fundamental to them. it's more likely that if they change, it is vertically turning that dial higher and higher. when we chose each other again last year, it was eyes wide open to the fullest expression of who that other person was, and could be. and we opted in to continue building, a linear control, with the other person towards that--a sine wave oscilating more and more rapidly with less dramatic delta between the highs and lows i believe a person's worst traits are also their best, and vice versa. they are the same side of a coin, and you're looking for someone who continues to inspire you to call forth the matured positive expression of your characteristics. we all should be so grateful to find people who call us into constant higher resonance. Aug 6	32	0	0	0	—	3,500
i found thrips on a number of my plants 😭 I have so many, this is going to be a real endeavor Aug 10	21	0	3	1	—	3,300
for as long as I can remember, the world has begun outside of me. when I connect with people relationally, when i think of them, I think about our “unit” first sometimes I think about the other person first — and under myself as described in relationship to that external environment. a lot of people misunderstand this. Ive stopped moralizing it once I learned 1. that it was happening and 2. how to communicate about it and express it positively. It doesn’t happen because I’m trying to be kind, it doesn’t happen because I’m trying to leverage a weakness, it’s just the primary way I orient in the world. Aug 11	21	0	4	0	—	3,200
in case anyone forgot how i used to post today was a little taste 😈 Aug 5	27	0	1	0	—	3,200
ease does not feel easy. it feels threatening, it feels boring, it feels like entropy lapping at my heels and the barely held raft of safety is breaking due to time, wear, slow degradation… movement looks and feels productive, and it often works as a pro social maladaptive cope because you often are getting things done. you’re being there for your friends. you’re showing up at work, always the first one to respond to an email, people reward you for your immediacy bias Aug 3	23	2	0	0	—	3,200
mom come get me, people are grinding at the sober sauna rave https://t.co/PcV659pJDM Aug 31	25	0	1	0	—	3,000
free yourself from the masters in your mind, shit on the side of the road Aug 28	25	0	1	0	—	3,000
Oh you’re toasty? Name every kind of toast. Aug 10	21	0	3	0	—	3,000
I am playing the game of Mao https://t.co/oySeAqYJxk Aug 22	20	0	3	0	—	2,900
even as I’ve learned to love myself, even as I’ve recognized there’s a person in this body who deserves the same attention and compassion and respect that I give others, by far the hardest thing to unfuck has been this dissociative bias to action. Aug 3	24	0	1	0	—	2,900
you’re saying this vocal is fried? Aug 3	20	1	1	0	—	2,800
spoiler alert; the bell jar is not an instruction manual! Aug 28	17	1	2	0	—	2,700
tradwives are the maoist inheritors Aug 7	15	0	4	0	—	2,600
@liquidprismata I am not particularly enjoying the way you qt. They feels weird, and frankly I find your replies annoying and not in the spirit of the tweet. If you qt me again I’m going to block you. Aug 4	19	0	2	0	—	2,600
@liquidprismata no, I don’t particularly struggle with sexual shame and am not ashamed of this post Aug 4	16	0	2	1	—	2,600
I will also add the emotional context that the day he did this was the day I called off my engagement with my ex finance, and I went over to hang out with friends for support. Aug 5	20	0	1	0	—	2,500
@strangestloop me when I find out Gitmo has a bigger memetic footprint Aug 4	18	0	2	0	—	2,500
Nathan is a great orator and conversationalist. He’s a top global contender for mastery over the English language, and he could give @animalologist a run for her money on meaningful words spoken per second. also, he ♥️’s NY and had a British accent https://t.co/Lif4fzXdKZ Aug 11	16	1	1	0	—	2,400
@basilYam I do not recommend banging her unless you want lasting psychic damage Aug 7	17	0	2	0	—	2,400
I’m looking at the words all together on the screen (part of this twitter wars thing), and I had a moment where I stopped for a second and just laughed. Like what are these words? Why are they associated in my head? Why does “cuties” the dating app have symbolic preference over clementines or hot babes. Don’t get me started on WH… Aug 5	7	0	1	0	2× Cuties2× Whorehole	2,400 1,200 × 2
the power of the structure is only as strong as the depths of its emotional meaning Aug 5	19	0	1	0	—	2,400
I’m so careful, and so nice, and try to always thing about every single freaking angle that anyone could read my tweet and hold that because, similar to the issue at the core of this tweet, it’s always about holding space for whoever is in the room with me at a detriment to myself— am I not allowed a single off the cuff tweet when im silently catching strays from the slightly misogynistic wounds of my mutuals all the time? Aug 3	19	0	1	0	—	2,400
that’s not really the way it happened though. I had known him for three years prior to this one incident happening. We lived together for another two and a half maybe afterwards. My life and nervous system got significantly better for a variety of reasons. He worked through his bs and became a more grounded and mature person. He didn’t touch me again ? Aug 6	18	0	1	0	—	2,300
@QiaochuYuan but it does feel like i get unexpected flak where others wouldn’t and im trying to resolve that internally Aug 3	16	0	2	0	—	2,300
my friend Ron works on cool projects 😎 https://t.co/g1mQw69qmZ Aug 3	17	1	0	0	—	2,300
maybe 2nd season would include -The Woman That Never Evolved -“Is Women's Labor a Commodity?” -The Tragedy of Heterosexuality -Ectogenesis Is for Feminists -Raewyn Connell's Masculinities and a discussion around the idea of male "disposability" Aug 20	17	0	1	0	—	2,200
absolutely losing my marbles at Puppet Fringe Festival Aug 13	15	0	2	0	—	2,200
@dheisman @GeorgeJourneys @funplings https://t.co/naGZoWmsIi :) Aug 4	12	0	2	1	—	2,200
@QiaochuYuan to be fair, it is something I stand by. I have never met someone who I wanted to be with romantically where their impotence got in the way for me. It has always been their shame about their impotence that has been the blocker. Aug 3	17	0	1	0	—	2,200
@funplings I see engagement bait!!! Aug 5	16	0	1	0	—	2,100
yes, entirely. i was talking to someone about sort of “known” and “unknown” shame. Ime shame that’s unknown to you ends up leaking out in all these pernicious ways. I’m my own past, I’ve taken it out on people, hurt them, couldn’t grapple with their feedback but also was obsessed with the shape of the shame. Other people’s unseen shame also hurt me. But when both parties acknowledge and see that shame— they’re like okay we know the elephant is in the room and we’re not going to let him trample us, then the partnership can work together on it Aug 4	14	0	2	0	—	2,100
@maebichka @davidshimel @simon_ohler this is helpful! I like that the limited time challenge makes it easier to think about. I do have a thing about supporting businesses (having been a waitress and a bartender I feel weird not leaving a tip), but maybe I can just leave a cash tip without ordering anything. Aug 4	12	0	3	0	—	2,100
I think it looks a lot like walking on eggshells around a person. I think shame mostly reflects a lack of self value. The deficit, if it cannot come from self compassion, will need affirmations of others to satisfy that self wound. In some cases, it may look like shaming or controlling someone around you through transference. In other cases it might look like a desperate needling of validation from the people around you about that wound. It might look like having something to prove and inadvertently doing a social faux pas. Our shame is will come to a head in our own lives in our own most intimate relationships. Aug 3	14	0	2	0	—	2,100
@QiaochuYuan no, I appreciate you saying things always. I appreciate you reminding me of how it will be received even when I’m exasperated. I never want you to feel like you can’t speak your mind Aug 3	16	0	1	0	—	2,100
a real “bro” moment of assault Aug 5	17	0	0	0	—	2,000
I think it depends on the people involved, the specific circumstances, why that person did what they did. Fwiw I didn’t do this with my rapist who drugged my drink — i was younger, he was more malicious, the action he took was more severe. the person I mention here was a friend of mine for a few years before it happened, the way it happened was (frankly and honestly) sad and pathetic from my perspective. he cornered me drunkenly, kissed me with tongue, and groped and squeezed my breast. The complicating factors were that he was a bit older— like 10 years, and a colleague at the time. Aug 5	15	0	1	0	—	2,000
okay not to be like a waterboarding purist or anything, but fyi @manabovetown everyone knows more water is actually less effective when you’re trying to distress them https://t.co/yOcssCgvzK Aug 4	15	0	1	0	—	2,000
@JoshuAnansi no, only the once Aug 5	12	0	2	0	—	1,900
@SarahAMcManus my experience with other people’s shame is something like… if they can’t recognize it in themselves, they will use you as a proxy, and in turn, potentially leave you with the same shame they were trying to rid themselves of Aug 3	14	0	1	0	—	1,900
tomorrow 2pm https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N https://t.co/oZV2ycWt9O Aug 30	9	2	0	0	—	1,800
@mr_eee_esq he was a good cook, but hogged the living room lol Aug 5	13	0	1	0	—	1,800
@anal0gfutures women are beautiful Aug 7	14	0	0	0	—	1,700
@maebichka @QiaochuYuan I’ve had first principles, but what about second principles? Aug 5	12	0	1	0	—	1,700
@JoshuAnansi to be certain, i didn’t shame him about it, but i also didn’t help him process bc frankly wasn’t my job. he had a rough patch after that where he had to do a of of emotional processing and reconciliation, and a nonzero amount was my silent presence as a reminder Aug 5	14	0	0	0	—	1,700
@christineist for a while I was apparently top 3 on all of glosso with the generous and compassionate traits. lmao that every other woman seems to have at least one appearance based word in the stack and I don’t 🤡 https://t.co/TEtuy5AYpv Aug 17	7	0	3	0	—	1,600
@funplings I tried posting one of my wackier lore drops but it didn’t bounce as much as I thought it would Aug 7	11	0	1	0	—	1,600
@goblinodds @Aella_Girl I think people are allowed to have complicated feelings about semi public figures (which includes Aella and you (and maybe me but to a much much much smaller extent). IMO preference falsification is worse than lying. Aug 5	11	0	1	0	—	1,600
@gptbrooke bro fr, this is not what I wanted to be known for Aug 4	13	0	0	0	—	1,600
I’m sorry that you feel like I’m shaming you because it is not my intention to has shame as a cudgel, but I do need to state my preferences and boundaries. You seem like the kind of person where I need to be particularly direct for you to hear it. If your quote tweets were intended to start a dialogue or confront me and get me to think about things from your perspective, it’s not working the way that you intend it to. Aug 4	11	0	1	0	—	1,600
@FractalAuth all the fractal! a fractal for everyone! Aug 4	5	0	0	0	2× Fractal	1,600 800 × 2
@ThinkingBone tell me Aug 3	9	0	2	0	—	1,600
https://t.co/C1Rp7WEhZk Aug 31	5	1	2	0	—	1,500
@bstract_thot he’s so good Aug 19	10	0	1	0	—	1,500
@SeraphinaWater omg there’s a conspiracy!! @basilYam was just tweeting about this too 😭 Aug 7	8	0	2	0	—	1,500
@aliceisplaying like… idk dude I’m actually just that insane. I’m making moves on the board you didn’t even think possible Aug 5	10	0	1	0	—	1,500
I actually don’t think he’s a bad person. We built a fundamental truth around the idea that his (drinking to blackout excess frequently and a proclivity for flirting with women significantly younger than him) was a recipe for disaster. Over time, he was able to work on this, and over time, I also grew to trust him more. But it didn’t happen over night, and it required him to also accept that the things which led him to assault me in the first place, were not good. Aug 5	10	0	1	0	—	1,500
@theOtherHatGuy oh no, this is a little insane I’ll cop to that. Aug 5	10	0	1	0	—	1,500
@LeRoyDesCimes woah, crossover episode! I wonder who it was! Aug 4	12	0	0	0	—	1,500
@davidshimel what about out at bars? order mocktails? seltzer water? Aug 4	6	0	3	0	—	1,500
@callanable hard to write it all out in a tweet, but the main point was something like. the thing that you’re hyper focused on worrying about is probably not the thing that’s actually off putting Aug 3	7	0	1	1	—	1,500
@callanable yeah, and it often has to do with a wound in their own sense of self which sucks you in like a vortex trying to fix it. I have no doubt that I’ve done this same thing to other people. Aug 3	10	0	1	0	—	1,500
@_space_punk_ have you spoken to the host? some events/hosts have options for people like volunteering time. I have a limited number of free tickets set aside for WH for example Aug 25	2	0	1	0	2× Whorehole	1,400 700 × 2
@CostaV02 yeah, WH2 had zero waterboarding! Aug 22	4	0	0	0	2× Whorehole	1,400 700 × 2
@9chabard https://t.co/Z6jNArKZfZ Aug 18	9	0	1	0	—	1,400
@meatballtimes some of us have had to WORK Aug 17	7	0	2	0	—	1,400
@silverarm0r what if it were okay to be a bad woman Aug 8	9	0	1	0	—	1,400
human responses to violence are much more variable, and tbh I think the prescriptive idea that reactions to assault/rape/trauma must inherently lead to depression, collapse, intense emotional shock, and long-term trauma, prevents some people from being able to talk about or process their experience fully. resilience, compartmentalization, anger rather than fear, rapid recovery, or simply deciding “this happened to me, but I am continuing with my life” are all intelligible and valid responses, and still none of those amount to consent. Aug 6	4	1	2	0	—	1,400
@ThinkingBone cfr -> tfr pipeline Aug 6	9	0	1	0	—	1,400
@emergentvibe new whorehole workshop incoming Aug 6	4	0	0	0	2× Whorehole	1,400 700 × 2
@vividvoid it’s literally nameless! how are people supposed to remember! Aug 5	11	0	0	0	—	1,400
@lumpwazhere oh this isn’t a recommendation, but it was what I felt I needed to do for myself in that moment I think walking away and protecting yourself is also a very valid answer Aug 5	11	0	0	0	—	1,400
@__drewface casa tilo! Aug 4	4	0	0	0	2× Casa Tilo	1,400 700 × 2
@moon_skier create the conditions for my own shame trigger, honestly not a bad idea Aug 4	9	0	1	0	—	1,400
I spent a significant portion of my week playing games while @meatballtimes watches (chats with his agents) Aug 27	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
(100% shade but I’d still live there) Aug 27	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
@default_friend in my head you’re the narrator Aug 26	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
taking care of yourself is an important part of taking care of others. the system being created is intentionally trying to overwhelm and exhaust your capacity to care for others. It is okay to make sure you and your immediate surroundings are safe, and to let people who are more resourced than you give rn. I think the concern is letting necrotized dysfunction set in, but it’s possible to be aware of what’s going on in the world, and strategic about your own capabilities, recognizing that this is a long fight, at the same time. Aug 25	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
@prana_addict my earnestness (diligence?) is part of what got me my jobs in dc despite only having worked in fast food and retail before then. Aug 7	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
@liminaldoge you may have one (1) fake me Aug 7	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
@basilYam heavy cream mentioned Aug 7	4	0	3	0	—	1,300
@Thomasdelvasto_ I just have insane stories!!! any time I lore drop people lose their fucking minds Aug 5	5	0	1	1	—	1,300
@Prigoose @lydialaurenson she’s not wrong though Aug 5	10	0	0	0	—	1,300
he wasn’t coerced into accepting the frame, he wanted to because I pointed to the ways it hurt me and was also showing up in his other relationships. It was an “oh fuck” moment for him lol I could tag him in to speak for himself if you’d like but that feels a little inappropriate to out him like that Aug 5	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
@JoshuAnansi no, coming to an agreement on what would be appropriate “punishment” and seeing him work on himself and his behavior, did. he also willingly moved in with me despite him knowing it would fuck him up a lil Aug 5	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
@JoshuAnansi I think I did this semi successfully, it wasn’t coercive. we had a long chat before I moved in, he felt a bit of pressure by my presence, and I honestly didn’t hate that, but I actively didn’t make our friendship about it Aug 5	8	0	1	0	—	1,300
@FelixDelong would you have preferred a police report and a cancellation? Aug 5	5	0	1	1	—	1,300
@prana_addict it’s low key kinda true tho Aug 4	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
@samlowen5105 I don’t really have alcohol at home! But when I socially drink I’ll often drink 2-3 drinks, and living in NYC that ends up being a lot of social evenings… Aug 4	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
I don’t think it’s necessarily a universal of held shame, but rather a true about how painful shame is for people to alchemize. and that the shame itself, is not undeserving of love or compassion or healing, but you, me, any of us, ought to be careful to understand what it can do when it fills the room to suffocation Aug 3	10	0	0	0	—	1,300
sexual shame is more unattractive than impotence, if you can’t get it up let’s just not have sex— but if you’ve got a weird who thing? ick Aug 3	7	1	0	0	—	1,300
@sheherenow_ is very cool! She does design, engineering, product, and research. Truly the whole package!looking in SF / NYC. Check out her website at https://t.co/fUe2xYOOEv Aug 3	5	1	1	0	—	1,300
@GeorgeJourneys @ntonio_enzo @timebard @GeneralAntilles @callanable love you George ♥️ Aug 2	6	0	2	0	—	1,300
@AriZerner recently? hollow knight, crusader kings, assassin’s creed. You? Aug 27	5	0	2	0	—	1,200
@mykola dude I was trying! a couple of years of my activism/fundraising was geared towards direct aid to sex workers and the homeless Aug 7	9	0	0	0	—	1,200
@ThinkingBone but forreal, cfr is a major thing I look for in my friendships too Aug 6	5	0	2	0	—	1,200
@aliceisplaying wouldn’t you like to know 😈 Aug 5	7	0	1	0	—	1,200
@crystalxduan power move, ask him out on a double date Aug 5	7	0	1	0	—	1,200
dude I’m not going to watch this video you know what’s not sitting right with me about this? that when I do something that hurts you (you feel like I’m shaming you). I apologize. when I feel like I’ve hurt people, even if it’s miniscule, even if I’m feeling defensive, I apologize because it is not my intention to hurt others. when you do something that hurts or upsets me (qting me sideways, reviving years old threads), you make excuses that this is the way you are. you’re evasive of the thing you’ve done and try to abstract it. food for thought. I’d have to imagine that this exact behavior is a part of why you struggle relationally. Aug 4	5	0	2	0	—	1,200
@nosilverv @funplings you have 10x the number of followers I do 😭 Aug 4	7	0	1	0	—	1,200
@funplings this you? 😘 https://t.co/Hs4Rv7d0hB Aug 4	7	0	1	0	—	1,200
@Thomasdelvasto_ no need to drive in New York 😅 Aug 4	5	0	2	0	—	1,200
yearning for the stability of a pickle relationship gap Aug 31	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@bstract_thot King of Wands goes crazy!! I’m now wishing I had drawn mine darker looking at these Aug 30	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@breaking2morrow what can we do to help, brother? Aug 20	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@9chabard Wait, calling the tower the House of God is so cracked Aug 17	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@adastroworld I’ve been putting together a syllabus for a tpot feminism reading group. I’ll add this Aug 7	4	0	2	0	—	1,100
@QiaochuYuan yeah that was unintentional :/ Aug 5	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@basilYam please tell me 🙏 Aug 5	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@Prigoose I love this idea! I’ll put something together Aug 5	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@funplings are you suggesting I’m slopped up? I’ve got a hundred drafts saved just for this occasion. I’m getting back to my slightly incendiary vulnerability posting roots Aug 4	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@funplings I’m closing that gap 🏃🏻‍♀️ you’re all about to find out about that competitive streak in me Aug 4	6	0	1	0	—	1,100
@ThinkingBone idk dude, I mean I was also this person. I think being broken up with for the first time instead of doing the breaking up had a big effect Aug 4	8	0	0	0	—	1,100
@gptbrooke yep. it’s a two sided dance, the person making the request (implicitly or explicitly) and the person acquiescing (or upholding a boundary) Aug 4	8	0	0	0	—	1,100
@sensefulronin happy to dm you and tell you how I set it up! it was pretty simply Aug 3	4	0	2	0	—	1,100
https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 31	4	1	0	0	—	1,000
supervixen, garbage i’ll go running, squirrel flower I got heaven, mannequin pussy white flag, dido Inferno, the buttress https://t.co/Zo3oVZpjLN Aug 28	7	0	0	0	—	1,000
@lydialaurenson wait, that’s the way I’ve always interpreted it. Isn’t that the moral of the story? Aug 25	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@moldbugchaser in not choosing Friedan or I also decided not to go with Paglia Aug 20	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@lillybilly299 “just a bunny tryna understand the universe” 🔫 Aug 17	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@Bonecondor I just found out that she died. no no no no. Ice Princess will never be the same Aug 17	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@adastroworld I’m 31 ✨ Aug 16	3	0	2	0	—	1,000
@CostaV02 SO many Aug 12	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@tenobrus @punished_teno teno, do you ever get groypers in your replies? Aug 5	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@somninautdotcom I’d do it again Aug 5	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
A group is also made up of individuals. Each group has a group identity and it also have individual identities. You need to filter between the two layers to figure out what’s actually going on Aug 5	7	0	0	0	—	1,000
@sheherenow_ omg baddie!! Aug 5	3	0	2	0	—	1,000
@ThinkingBone you should know that for the month of August while the twitter wars are on, everything you say is fair game Aug 4	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@LeRoyDesCimes yes Aug 4	7	0	0	0	—	1,000
@notsocrazy24 okay, now you’re cooking 👀 Aug 3	3	0	2	0	—	1,000
@tasshinfogleman let me start a service arm 😍 Aug 3	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
Nick is a software engineer looking for work! Find his website here! https://t.co/tMaqJaDLzk Aug 3	5	0	1	0	—	1,000
@lydialaurenson I generally think of one’s ethics and values in the same way too. It’s incredibly important to take individual actions seriously, it’s important to live up to your values even when no is watching despite how easy it could be to grift or dissociate from your impact on others Aug 31	4	0	1	0	—	900
Townhalls resume tomorrow at 2pm est :) https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 30	3	1	0	0	—	900
@gptbrooke @frideswyth @cauliflwr_human as with everything else I have spoken about it at length. I perpetually need to get better at recording myself Aug 29	6	0	0	0	—	900
I think the work you’re doing for mental health advocacy in the medical system, being a resource for teens, young adults, and families in circumstances where they feel so alone, like no one will understand them, where they feel like there’s no hope… lump it’s incredibly important. I wonder if there are other lumps, working on racial justice or fighting for immigrants, who feel like their scope is small too, and they wish they could be doing what you’re doing. I think everyone, all together, makes things better. Aug 25	2	0	2	0	—	900
@mykola I’m so honored to know you Myk Aug 21	4	0	1	0	—	900
@default_friend happy to send you the guided questions I’ve written up for each section :) Aug 20	1	0	1	1	—	900
@lillybilly299 @Glawk_40 as a resident rabbit expert, can you confirm? Aug 17	4	0	1	0	—	900
@gptbrooke right?!? Aug 17	6	0	0	0	—	900
@meatballtimes (she says, at home not working while you are at work) Aug 17	6	0	0	0	—	900
@ThinkingBone @brianwut I’m pooped, too much sack Aug 15	6	0	0	0	—	900
@mylifeisaplague right? Aug 12	2	0	2	0	—	900
@dheisman included in this assessment Aug 12	2	0	2	0	—	900
@scriptK80 that’s also the fact I make in Las Vegas Aug 10	4	0	1	0	—	900
@silverarm0r what if I treat “bad women” exactly the same because I find them beautiful and deserving of the same compassion and joy even in their nature, what then Aug 8	6	0	0	0	—	900
@funplings I have enough nonsense that I just don’t need to do that Aug 7	4	0	1	0	—	900
@tenobrus @punished_teno I fear I have made a mistake Aug 5	4	0	1	0	—	900
@MichaelWDorrill the upside down topt Aug 5	6	0	0	0	—	900
@LeRoyDesCimes the number of doula clients I have with something similar :/ Aug 5	6	0	0	0	—	900
@Paul_Melman @JoshuAnansi oh damn!! I lived with him for a few years! I earnestly didn’t mean to write it that way Aug 5	6	0	0	0	—	900
@cinnibop fr fr, it’s on the horizon for me Aug 4	6	0	0	0	—	900
@rayefull oh!! this is a super interesting way to work through it! Aug 4	4	0	1	0	—	900
@__drewface this is the way. alcohol is just not a fun drug Aug 4	4	0	1	0	—	900
@funplings bro this is cheating! Aug 3	4	0	1	0	—	900
@PstafarianPrice @nomanautomata Christine, I’m going to remove us as moots. I don’t agree with this or find it okay. Aug 2	6	0	0	0	—	900
@lumpwazhere you are not failing your community if you leave this job and decide that it’s too much for your health Aug 31	3	0	1	0	—	800
@charmcgi we love to see it :) Aug 30	5	0	0	0	—	800
@VitreousSolid @kenthecowboy_ https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 30	3	0	1	0	—	800
@UntilTrees yes Aug 27	5	0	0	0	—	800
@Glawk_40 no bnnuy tho? Aug 24	3	0	1	0	—	800
@9chabard yo Aug 22	3	0	1	0	—	800
@_chair expression of understanding! Aug 20	5	0	0	0	—	800
@veggiebat_ you’d have incredible insights, need u in this Aug 20	3	0	1	0	—	800
@mishapathy @nedsore a generational talent Aug 17	3	0	1	0	—	800
@IgorBrigadir MORE!!!! MORE!!!!!!! Aug 17	3	0	1	0	—	800
@keyofgeo yes Aug 13	3	0	1	0	—	800
@drethelin so true, but also the rest of the season was slop Aug 12	3	0	1	0	—	800
@eligaultney no, I actually think it runs the opposite. like too much orientation towards nondualism such that it objectifies my corporal being in ways that harm it, and, through downstream effects, others Aug 11	3	0	1	0	—	800
like thought begins “outside” of my self (I get that because it’s a thought it’s coming from my head) but the orientation begins outside— usually oriented to other people/relational units/social structures/political systems ect ect ect. I then need to remember that there is “self” and connect it back otherwise I risk wormholing away Aug 11	3	0	1	0	—	800
@crystalxduan @personarotator me explaining what it feels like to be Fe dominant Aug 11	3	0	1	0	—	800
@parakeetnebula huh Aug 10	3	0	1	0	—	800
@viverricious martini in hand Aug 10	3	0	1	0	—	800
@cinnibop uh oh! uno reverse trap card Aug 8	5	0	0	0	—	800
@responsiblparty this is a great picture of you :) Aug 8	3	0	1	0	—	800
@somninautdotcom wanna hop on a call and let our projections meet? 🥺 Aug 7	1	0	2	0	—	800
@responsiblparty not at all ♥️ Aug 7	3	0	1	0	—	800
@ascetic_shadow @basilYam2 I think it’s more the idea of the elaborate treats. The fantasy of the food Aug 7	3	0	1	0	—	800
@basilYam2 they distilled the female mind (or maybe primed it) Aug 7	3	0	1	0	—	800
@ChicEnAngelic ok but it’s not Aug 7	1	0	2	0	—	800
@ChicEnAngelic but I’m telling you that that’s exactly what happened, it’s been years since this happened so I know it for certain Aug 6	1	0	2	0	—	800
@chopstickfury01 @ThinkingBone oh yo, I got a buddy who works there Aug 6	3	0	1	0	—	800
but i did change him. or rather, his guilt about hurting a friend of his prompted him to change. yeah, he groped my breast and kissed me without my consent while he was drunk. it's sexual assault in the 3rd degree as defined by the state we lived in at the time. i'm saying i had, at this point in my life, been assaulted so many times that I had a taxonomy of assault, and I decided that this idea that "assaults interrupt your life" was not helping me recover and I wanted to try something different rather than collapsing and going into a depressive suicidal hole again. I did something different, and it contextually made sense given the relatively mild (compared to my own previous experiences) severity of what had happened, and the context of our outstanding friendship prior to him assaulting me. Aug 6	1	0	2	0	—	800
@goblinodds @Aella_Girl oh I actually missed that word in the original post Aug 6	3	0	1	0	—	800
imo it depends: how did it come up, what did the say — was it nuanced or adding to a dogpile, is something at stake for one or both of them? Is it “oh, I disapprove of this person” or “oh of course”. I actually think the “of course” aspect is sort of load bearing. I think adding to a dogpile is a cowardly move, but I can imagine situations where revealing a hand isn’t. Aug 5	3	0	1	0	—	800
@bufffakecel I feel bad for your newborn daughter. Aug 5	3	0	1	0	—	800
@PsyGenLab lol, he’s nearly my dads age Aug 5	0	0	1	1	—	800
@strnglft perfume party? Aug 5	3	0	1	0	—	800
@SH2F088 @sheherenow_ hippies can be baddies but not the other way around Aug 5	1	0	2	0	—	800
@funplings @QiaochuYuan @nosilverv I’m so sorry Aug 4	3	0	1	0	—	800
@QiaochuYuan @nosilverv @funplings https://t.co/aSrTh9h32c Aug 4	3	0	1	0	—	800
@funplings raze the playing field Aug 4	5	0	0	0	—	800
@FireEyes66 @kidcorvid I think I need a social solution rather than a desire solution! Aug 4	1	0	2	0	—	800
@marinwaves zero shame detected Aug 4	5	0	0	0	—	800
@timoshando yeah, just be up front with people Aug 4	5	0	0	0	—	800
@DiamonDie I think that’s true! this tweet was mostly about how much that is front and center in a relationship. Is my sexual shame taking the front seat so much that the rest of my relationship with my partner feels edged out? If so, not good! Aug 4	5	0	0	0	—	800
@VoitenZrage 🫂 It’s hard!! The shame is way harder to break. It’s the whole “no one cares about your weird looking mole” thing. Aug 3	5	0	0	0	—	800
@UntilTrees I think the double bind is something like… because people will have empathy about the shame, they will contort themselves in ways that they don’t expect and later feel disgusted by it. Aug 3	3	0	1	0	—	800
@sheherenow_ Sam is a fractal grad, founder, and full stack engineer! They’re looking for a product or engineering role. Their website is here: https://t.co/r9IBCcCHuq Aug 3	1	0	0	0	2× Fractal	800 400 × 2
@sheherenow_ My friend Nataly is a full stack engineer with experience in medical and biotech work. She’s based in NYC. She’s not on twitter so hmu for an intro to her Aug 3	3	0	1	0	—	800
@gmamoon888 hmm, carelessness is a pretty big trigger for me Aug 31	2	0	1	0	—	700
@projectionheart depends on how the values conflict Aug 31	4	0	0	0	—	700
@VitreousSolid @kenthecowboy_ sorry 😢 I’ll do the next one over a weekend! I was hoping to catch enough people on a lunch break across time zones Aug 30	2	0	1	0	—	700
@oysterrbaby @kenthecowboy_ https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 30	4	0	0	0	—	700
@simon_ohler I have a special place in my heart for Kingdom Hearts but it’s kinda slop. Highly rated games are Disco Elysium and Inscryption. I think one of the better technical games that I’m good at is Civilization. I love strategy/resource management and I also think I’m good at it Aug 28	2	0	1	0	—	700
@PhaentGames @_space_punk_ idk what your relationship is to this, but sometimes asking specific people or the host or crowdfunding can also cover airfare. I’ve bought people flights for events in the past Aug 26	2	0	1	0	—	700
@lumpwazhere idk I’d be curious to know how you think thru this. I get so… bowled over by the size and scope of it, and find myself trying to double down by helping the people around me, my local community, the people I meet in my day to day life Aug 25	2	0	1	0	—	700
I think what I get stuck on is the scale. I get overwhelmed and disenfranchised by trying to fight the giant vortex, and I think I can only feasibly help by helping specific individuals. -giving one person $50 or taking someone out for a full meal instead of giving everyone asking $1 -paying for one persons legal fees in a detention center instead of paying it towards some random NGO where you’re not sure if it’s a part of the non profit industrial complex -mailing friends misoprostol, and knowing where and how to get them reproductive care -putting specific people in touch with lawyers, advocates, local police I know and trust on the force after they’re raped or assaulted instead of calling into my confessional office to expand VAWA when it’s already impossible to get approved Aug 25	2	0	1	0	—	700
@lydialaurenson yeah exactly! that’s how I’ve always understood it Aug 25	2	0	1	0	—	700
@univrsw3th4rt wanna apply together? Aug 24	2	0	1	0	—	700
@ItItme838106 @knightcore77 You mean why was I kind and compassionate to a human being pathetically past their prime? he was my coworker, and he did eventually get fired for this and other things Aug 24	0	0	2	0	—	700
@star_lings It’s cute!! Aug 22	2	0	1	0	—	700
@VitreousSolid @kenthecowboy_ yep! I do them as townhalls Aug 22	2	0	1	0	—	700
@michaeltong_ I know that forest!!! I know those walls! Aug 21	2	0	1	0	—	700
@ThinkingBone I was trying to avoid authors who people already had emotional associations about. Aug 21	4	0	0	0	—	700
@halcyon_hazel haha thank you! high praise 😭 Aug 20	2	0	1	0	—	700
@batkatebush @QiaochuYuan ✨ Aug 20	4	0	0	0	—	700
@charmcgi you look incredible! you look happy! this color is incredible on you ♥️♥️ Aug 17	2	0	1	0	—	700
@UntilTrees @MomaBera the time is now Aug 17	2	0	1	0	—	700
@UntilTrees I love it so much! it’s quite the vibe Aug 17	2	0	1	0	—	700
@witness_me I love the bear to burger pipeline Aug 17	4	0	0	0	—	700
@ascetic_shadow … mana? this looks so cool! Aug 17	2	0	1	0	—	700
@UntilTrees i think both, I’ve come home to who I am after a period of self doubt Aug 16	2	0	1	0	—	700
@breaking2morrow I’m more comfortable telling jokes! I feel safer around you ♥️ Aug 16	2	0	1	0	—	700
@Thomasdelvasto_ It’s more compulsive than passive aggressive :/ Aug 13	2	0	1	0	—	700
@baseddoll Sabrina!! Aug 11	2	0	1	0	—	700
@AnyaOnline_ I looked up to Daria! Aug 11	2	0	1	0	—	700
@breaking2morrow I’d be worried about any extra damage to the plant babies. I’m trying the shower and insecticidal spray method first but if they continue to eat my plants I may switch to more extreme measures Aug 11	2	0	1	0	—	700
@responsiblparty so close! that’s only one kind of toast! Aug 10	2	0	1	0	—	700
@lumpwazhere you’re really cool, and I look up to you a lot. Aug 10	2	0	1	0	—	700
@cosmojg no, my dad just forgot to feed me lol Aug 10	2	0	1	0	—	700
@lumpwazhere hi Leo lump! Aug 10	2	0	1	0	—	700
@Thomasdelvasto_ thank you 🙏 this is close to how I was feeling Aug 10	2	0	1	0	—	700
@lumpwazhere have you met/chatted with Aline? im forgetting her @ rn but i feel like you two would have a lot to talk about Aug 9	2	0	1	0	—	700
@meatballtimes tolerant liberal (I’ve never met someone different than me so I assume it’s all aesthetics) vs tolerant liberal (they’re very different from me and I promote their right to be so) Aug 8	4	0	0	0	—	700
@basilYam yes Aug 8	4	0	0	0	—	700
@silverarm0r what is a “bad woman” to you?b Aug 8	2	0	1	0	—	700
@pli_cachete I don’t have or keep secrets and my life is better for it Aug 8	2	0	1	0	—	700
@adastroworld What are your solutions? Aug 7	2	0	1	0	—	700
@adastroworld @owlthatissuperb Yeah. all interesting angles to consider. I think i have also become considerably less needy over time Aug 7	4	0	0	0	—	700
@liminaldoge as a treat Aug 7	4	0	0	0	—	700
@violetvariant what does creatine do? Aug 5	2	0	1	0	—	700
@Squigg sure Aug 5	2	0	1	0	—	700
@mykola I think it would be incredibly healing to have a public memorial. This is obviously much smaller scale, but it took decades to publicly commemorate the Halifax explosion— it was so traumatic that there was almost a collective amnesia of the event Aug 5	4	0	0	0	—	700
@__drewface @Nexuist are you seeing these stats!!! Aug 5	2	0	1	0	—	700
@Aella_Girl @TaliaGraceSable @strangestloop nothing new under the sun 😭 Aug 5	4	0	0	0	—	700
@mr_eee_esq sort of! we left it on good terms, we’ve texted a little bit like on birthdays, but I moved to a new city a few years back Aug 5	2	0	1	0	—	700
@veggiebat_ aw jeez :/ Aug 5	2	0	1	0	—	700
@AugustineFacts I appreciate you Aug 4	4	0	0	0	—	700
@Thomasdelvasto_ 🔫 Aug 4	4	0	0	0	—	700
@wreckmyshit @funplings they’re afraid of your true power 🫨 you would absolutely mog Aug 4	2	0	1	0	—	700
@wreckmyshit @funplings guest list? Aug 4	2	0	1	0	—	700
@UntilTrees @davidshimel bro, I forgot entirely about cordials Aug 4	2	0	1	0	—	700
@eligaultney this is a good idea, need to be better with my own boundaries Aug 4	2	0	1	0	—	700
@GeorgeJourneys I love fizzy drinks :) Aug 4	2	0	1	0	—	700
yeah, I was saying that to @meatballtimes last night. I try to hold myself to high standards, I actively encourage people to criticize me and give me feedback to help hold myself to a high standard. Am I really that surprised that my friends are doing what I ask and want from them? Aug 4	4	0	0	0	—	700
It’s odd, because I also find shame to be a pretty necessary and valuable social tool. Shame is “good” in a sense that it tells us what is unacceptable — except that most people have a wildly miscalibrated shame-mometer and don’t know how to recenter it to have healthy shame (I should feel a little shame from like… cutting of a pregnant woman with a stroller. maybe not enough to derail my day. But enough for it to sting) Aug 3	4	0	0	0	—	700
It was written from my own experience, which is definitely in relation to people who have had sexual shame which makes them jealous or abusive partners, a desire to control me for their own sake, and the kinds of people who treat sex solely as a prowess numbers thing. Then there’s the narcissism of toxic sadness — so much of my own compassion shaped around the wounds of other people at the expense of my own self and my own hurt. Aug 3	4	0	0	0	—	700
@tasshinfogleman you heard me 🤓 Aug 3	4	0	0	0	—	700
@FractalAuth yeah… I had sent it to the previous year’s group chats already but felt bad for not opening it to ppl Aug 3	4	0	0	0	—	700
@gmamoon888 hmm, I think carelessness is directed towards other people and unaware is inwardly or self directed Aug 31	1	0	1	0	—	600
@gmamoon888 how can you tell that they’re unaware? Aug 31	1	0	1	0	—	600
@strangestloop I appeal to add @michaeltong_ Aug 31	1	0	1	0	—	600
@GadBeebe hmm maybe I’ve been heavily influenced by Hocus Pocus Aug 31	1	0	1	0	—	600
@BecomingCritter I generally think most people are smart in a particular domain. be around them long enough to learn their wisdom Aug 31	3	0	0	0	—	600
@BasedDoll @kenthecowboy_ https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 30	1	0	1	0	—	600
@lumpwazhere Alt? Aug 29	1	0	1	0	—	600
@lumpwazhere hello lump Aug 28	3	0	0	0	—	600
@deficit0c play palworld with me Aug 27	1	0	1	0	—	600
@UntilTrees @meatballtimes it is, isn’t it :) Aug 27	3	0	0	0	—	600
@poiThePoi hey now 😭 Aug 27	1	0	1	0	—	600
@ThinkingBone I once again think skeleton says a banger and put it on twitter dot com Aug 27	3	0	0	0	—	600
. https://t.co/M1YDige9GB Aug 22	3	0	0	0	—	600
@moldbugchaser On Liking Women or Females? Aug 21	1	0	1	0	—	600
@PronouncedWrong ✨ Aug 20	3	0	0	0	—	600
@WatsonLadd ooo these are good additions. Aug 20	3	0	0	0	—	600
It bothers me too, but I guess I read it like.. “other people can live that way but these are the things I feel I need”. Especially when it comes to childcare I think a lot of people are trapped in the performance culture of like… school, extra curricular, ultra nice house, vacations, ect ect. I desire to provide that kind of stuff for my future kids too ? It might also be the dual income trap which I know can happen even starting at like 80k and upwards. Childcare so expensive that one parent ends up working just to pay for it Aug 20	3	0	0	0	—	600
@christineist I liked my tarot card description too https://t.co/vrSd8AQTcm Aug 17	3	0	0	0	—	600
@ascetic_shadow I did Aug 17	3	0	0	0	—	600
@driftingwendigo I love it Aug 17	3	0	0	0	—	600
@basilYam softer 🥹 I think some of it is growth, and some of it is comfort around you Aug 16	3	0	0	0	—	600
@callanable 🥹 I love when my friends are exactly themselves Aug 16	3	0	0	0	—	600
@Acre108 👁️ 👄 👁️ looking at u like Aug 16	1	0	1	0	—	600
@QiaochuYuan 😌 im really happy to hear that Aug 16	3	0	0	0	—	600
@adastroworld WHAT!!! Happy birthday!!! Aug 16	1	0	1	0	—	600
@liminal_square 🥹🥺 Aug 16	3	0	0	0	—	600
@embryosophy @sheherenow_ Fahrenheit knew Aug 14	3	0	0	0	—	600
@DariasRucker it’s clearly minionese Aug 14	3	0	0	0	—	600
@strnglft Fringe Festival, for puppeteers Aug 13	1	0	1	0	—	600
@kidcorvid woah!! wth!! these are so cool! Aug 12	1	0	1	0	—	600
@aliceisplaying That’s because you have Fi Aug 11	1	0	1	0	—	600
@liminaldoge welcome home Aug 10	3	0	0	0	—	600
@michaeltong_ that’s my boy Aug 9	1	0	1	0	—	600
@eurydicelives midwit curve is real with this one Aug 8	3	0	0	0	—	600
@GadBeebe when you see someone else’s projections of you and find it increasingly complicated to figure out how they got there Aug 8	3	0	0	0	—	600
@moldbugchaser you get me Aug 7	3	0	0	0	—	600
@NathanpmYoung impressive! I’m in the 5-15 category. I lost count but I think it’s in the 12-13 range? Aug 6	1	0	1	0	—	600
@ChicEnAngelic i didn't want distance. justice for me was accountability with a continued relationship Aug 6	1	0	1	0	—	600
@silverarm0r many are saying this Aug 6	3	0	0	0	—	600
@bufffakecel @liziestar would you like me to tag him in? Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@liziestar well I did with the guy who raped me and he got discharged from the military and arrested for it I decided to be kinder to the pathetic guy who groped me once Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@liziestar @funplings oh, you’re so right that I forgot to share :) I could send him your way? Aug 5	3	0	0	0	—	600
@nosilverv we live in a para (dise/cosm) Aug 5	3	0	0	0	—	600
@fitnessfeelingz @TakeThiamine you’re so right, I should have told our hundreds of mutual friends, cancelled him and got him fired from his job, and filed a police report instead. oh wait. he did get fired from the job for flirting with interns after I tried smacking some sense into him Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@prana_addict affirm… but what if? Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@Thomasdelvasto_ joy oh boy Aug 5	3	0	0	0	—	600
@JoshuAnansi imo intimacy is shared context, and it felt good for both of us when we could work back to that point Aug 5	3	0	0	0	—	600
@PronouncedWrong 🫂 Aug 5	3	0	0	0	—	600
@veggiebat_ I have a good core group of like 3-4 ppl, but many people outside of that, yes Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@ThinkingBone hey dude do you wanna hang out tomorrow? why?? uhhhhh no reason…. Aug 5	1	0	1	0	—	600
@AnniePosting I have not? Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@_space_punk_ how did you learn to process it? have you ever had anyone bully you with their shame? Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@oryx_wren hmmm, this probably would have been a better way to phrase it Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@RichDecibels @nosilverv @funplings not the big dawgs 😭 Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@VoitenZrage I’ll be nice to you! Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@Theguywith1t oof. been there buddy. 🫂 Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@mykola @funplings ^ https://t.co/X9atVGRf9u Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@__drewface also side note, I’m very impressed about the 6 years marker! something for me to look up to Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@VoitenZrage that doesn’t sound like a good fit for me Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@exactlynora I love ginger beer. I think feeling a lil fancy with it will help me feel not as “out of place” Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@samlowen5105 @202accepted hmm, I’m pretty comfortable socially! just do what others are doing — the ideas of switching to another kind of drink in hand help Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@technohoodlum @QiaochuYuan 💀 case in point about why I am the type of person who had to write the first tweet Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@technohoodlum @QiaochuYuan the women/shame/porn angle is something I hadn’t considered. much to think about re gender shame Aug 4	1	0	1	0	—	600
@MasterTimBlais honestly? I could work with it Aug 4	3	0	0	0	—	600
@sheherenow_ Plus a few others!! Ask! Aug 3	1	0	1	0	—	600
@archivedself @pepijndevos @ulyssepence 🥰♥️🙏 Aug 1	3	0	0	0	—	600
@1thousandfaces_ now that’s a good time 😎 Aug 31	2	0	0	0	—	500
@keyofgeo @bstract_thot scrub a dub dub Aug 30	2	0	0	0	—	500
@michelleakin that’s so cool!!! Aug 28	2	0	0	0	—	500
@_foidianslip and there she sits, the crown jewel of all my marbles Aug 27	2	0	0	0	—	500
@_space_punk_ @PhaentGames I love when god gives us clear signals ♥️ Aug 26	2	0	0	0	—	500
no, if he raped me I would have taken him to the range we liked to go to and “accidentally” shot him. This was someone who I’d know for years. He groped me once while pathetically drunk. I decided to be kind to him, instead of punitive. He still went into to a years long depression and shame spiral over hurting me, his friend, and losing his job. Aug 24	0	0	1	0	—	500
@ItItme838106 @knightcore77 this man was 38 when this happened, and only had one girlfriend in his life with no hook ups. So I’d say he falls more in the incel category. Aug 23	0	0	1	0	—	500
@univrsw3th4rt she looks like you! Aug 23	2	0	0	0	—	500
@__drewface @JakeZegil @Prigoose congrats Jake! Aug 23	2	0	0	0	—	500
@breadnomore I could do one in person in nyc and one online if there’s enough interest Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@bananamelter YES Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@mauve_sky oh heyyy 👀 Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@HemlockTapioca HEMLOCK 🍎 Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@lu_sichu 🙃 Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@AltCulture I chose readings all across the board in tone and ideology. ♥️ Donna Haraway is a favorite of mine Aug 20	2	0	0	0	—	500
@veggiebat_ ♥️🍎🥂 Aug 19	2	0	0	0	—	500
@DariasRucker I thought it was fine? Her music is kinda whatever like it felt meant for 10 yrs ago. Aug 19	2	0	0	0	—	500
@frideswyth @FluidityForum @lumpwazhere !! Aug 19	2	0	0	0	—	500
@sheherenow_ I actually don’t know which is the cover but Torn is very good Aug 18	0	0	1	0	—	500
@extropilled @christineist I’m in good company then 👀 Aug 18	2	0	0	0	—	500
@lumpwazhere love lump!!!! ♥️ Aug 18	2	0	0	0	—	500
@spephton @basilYam I approve of horse pepsi Aug 17	2	0	0	0	—	500
@gptbrooke it’s so cute 🥰 Aug 17	2	0	0	0	—	500
@oysterrbaby this is insane and I love it Aug 17	2	0	0	0	—	500
@chercher_ai 🌝 Aug 17	2	0	0	0	—	500
@cinnibop thank you Cinna ♥️ hope to become masterly conflicted! …wait a second — Aug 17	2	0	0	0	—	500
@Offadare oh man, that’s really high praise. here’s to meeting in person sometime soon 🥂 Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@prana_addict @MaryZoso yay! Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@veggiebat_ woah, huge unlock Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@aliceisplaying I’ll take it 😎 I’m glad I’m not stagnant lol Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@GeorgeJourneys thank you George! Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@frideswyth sinew Aug 16	2	0	0	0	—	500
@strnglft Aug 13	0	0	1	0	—	500
@LeRoyDesCimes @Bruce_T_ this is so good of you 🥺 Aug 12	2	0	0	0	—	500
@BLUNDERBUSSTED We’ve got another Murakami head in the house 😈 Aug 12	2	0	0	0	—	500
@xsphi Willow 🥺 Aug 12	2	0	0	0	—	500
@boldlygrow really has range Aug 12	2	0	0	0	—	500
@SH2F088 The Craft was one of my favorite childhood movies. I feel like that tells you a lot about my upbringing Aug 12	2	0	0	0	—	500
@AnyaOnline_ Jane is so cool. Exactly herself, and willing to pursue her own vision with no restraints. Aug 11	0	0	1	0	—	500
@star_lings truly Aug 11	2	0	0	0	—	500
@VolunTerraFirma well done Aug 10	2	0	0	0	—	500
@adam_kranz I love bees Aug 10	2	0	0	0	—	500
tbf it now looks like this https://t.co/VU59QVZlgy Aug 10	2	0	0	0	—	500
@SkyeSharkie beautiful! Aug 8	2	0	0	0	—	500
@funplings @adastroworld I’ll tweet about it! I’m finalizing the reading list bc I bet people will be picky Aug 8	2	0	0	0	—	500
@soundrotator what are the way in which you are courageous? Aug 7	2	0	0	0	—	500
@silverarm0r girl, you know I just posted about it Aug 7	2	0	0	0	—	500
@ChicEnAngelic what if I’m just built different from you Aug 7	0	0	1	0	—	500
Girl, not my poor therapist catching strays 😂 You’re kinda saying a lot for someone who can’t imagine anything from my perspective despite me telling you straight what I believe and feel. A lot of trauma is about construction of a narrative that also works for you —literally the idea behind reclaiming (a word, your power, ect ect). I’m really sorry if this is triggering something in you, but I promise that I’m fine. Aug 7	0	0	1	0	—	500
@ChicEnAngelic what do you think was happening? I have a licensed therapist. I wasn’t reliving it with the abuser? Aug 6	0	0	1	0	—	500
@drethelin @viverricious omg Aug 6	2	0	0	0	—	500
@liziestar I forgot the groypers were pro-metoo Aug 5	2	0	0	0	—	500
@liziestar it’s incredible that you call yourself a Christian. maybe I’ll see you in church some time…that is if you actually go? Aug 5	0	0	1	0	—	500
oh for sure, this is is definitely part of the dynamic and I’ve written about that aspect of it. I think Brooke’s reply was really spot on — if I grow resentful it’s often because I’ve stepped over my own boundaries. some of this is is directed at people who continue to barrel thru my boundaries after they’ve been set, or people who egg me on to step outside of my own boundaries with empathy traps (still my own failing because of the self abandonment) Aug 5	2	0	0	0	—	500
@strangestloop thank you, strange loop Aug 5	2	0	0	0	—	500
@i2equalsj2 It is not built off of this single instance of interactions Aug 5	0	0	1	0	—	500
@JoshuAnansi does it change anything for you when I say that this guy is almost my dad’s age? Aug 5	2	0	0	0	—	500
@UntilTrees integrating and prepping for the rest of your life Aug 5	2	0	0	0	—	500
@danteiguessrigh I bet you could be surprised :) Aug 4	2	0	0	0	—	500
@Theguywith1t was there a specific moment which caused the switch in perspective? Aug 4	0	0	1	0	—	500
@qorprate Yeah, I’ll dm you Aug 3	2	0	0	0	—	500
@sonikudzu @tasshinfogleman yooooo, that would be so nice Aug 3	2	0	0	0	—	500
@lapislagoons wait how did you know Aug 3	2	0	0	0	—	500
@baoteching @tasshinfogleman I love this 🥺 Aug 3	2	0	0	0	—	500
@GadBeebe Mary sun, Sarah moon, Winnie rising Aug 31	1	0	0	0	—	400
@exactlynora please sir, may I have some more? Aug 30	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ciphergoth wait until you see the rest 😈 Aug 29	1	0	0	0	—	400
@earnestpost from someone who loves me very much 🥹 Aug 29	1	0	0	0	—	400
@simon_ohler yooo!! what other games do you like? Aug 29	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ExTenebrisLucet 🫡 you know it Aug 29	1	0	0	0	—	400
@poptimisticity sir, this was a joke Aug 29	1	0	0	0	—	400
@Leporabelle it’s so good Aug 28	1	0	0	0	—	400
@sheherenow_ yeah that part is crazy Aug 28	1	0	0	0	—	400
@grep_cat_ I’m jealous 😭 Aug 27	1	0	0	0	—	400
@cory_fitz @slooterman oh he’s cooking Aug 27	1	0	0	0	—	400
similar! I think his features are quite nice. naturally warm eyes and smile, lots of personality, good face shape and personality. Not as big a fan of his style — i tend to not like ponytails on men (long hair is fine though), beard looks like it could use oil or a trim. But that’s a personal preference! He’s working with a lot of great innate features Aug 27	1	0	0	0	—	400
@eatnik I’m so sorry friend. 🫂 Let me know if you’d like to talk. Aug 27	1	0	0	0	—	400
@__drewface tasty 🍹 Aug 27	1	0	0	0	—	400
side note, but Ime a lot of the rw people claiming “suicidal empathy” are projecting. they feel that way, because they ran themselves thru the ringer politically and emotionally. They burned themselves out on kindness, and for whatever reason came out on the other side more jaded and hurt rather than expansive Aug 25	1	0	0	0	—	400
@9chabard awww 🥹 Aug 22	1	0	0	0	—	400
@sheherenow_ do you know the card game Mao? Aug 22	1	0	0	0	—	400
@cosmos_raj this is soooo good! Aug 21	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ThinkingBone Get off!!!! Aug 21	1	0	0	0	—	400
@teddydreamsnyc beautiful and sexy 👀 Aug 21	1	0	0	0	—	400
@evodevotee @QiaochuYuan yes plz Shanthi :) Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@thedearvoid anyone is allowed to call themselves tpot ♥️ Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@violetvariant YES Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@GeorgeJourneys thank you! Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@thrialectics that would be kino Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@projectionheart lol Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@sam_kritch hell yeah 😎 Aug 20	1	0	0	0	—	400
@davidshimel nice Aug 19	1	0	0	0	—	400
@GoddessOfSin666 It looks so cool! Aug 19	1	0	0	0	—	400
@zrkrlc @nobu_hibiki I would love to meet you too ♥️ Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@samlakig thank you! Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@brianwut @Will_Duffield me too :) Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@MichaelWDorrill thank you so much Michael. 🙏 I’ve learned so much from you. here’s to healthy boundaries 🥂 Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ElodesNL winsome!! Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@responsiblparty sorry, instructions unclear. sending drone strike with infinite hugs and smiles to your location. thank you so much Luke ♥️ I respect the hell out of you too. Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@extropilled I’d love to know you more as well. You’re very cool, and I admire how you are exactly yourself. A lot to learn from. Here’s to hoping I’ll be back in Europe soon. ♥️ Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@zencephalon thank you Zen 🥰 Aug 17	1	0	0	0	—	400
@driftingwendigo thank you so much 🥰 Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ptdamiba thank u!! Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@SeraphinaWater thank you!! Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@lumpwazhere thank you so much, lump ♥️ hope to continue holding more and more of myself for the better Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ValDelamere yay! I’m excited to see you again. I miss you ♥️ Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@0xthegipper I’m so happy to have the twin I always hoped for ♥️ Aug 16	1	0	0	0	—	400
@mykola … okay maybe Buffy excepted Aug 12	1	0	0	0	—	400
@mage_ofaquarius indeed 😣 Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@aliceisplaying yep! Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@eligaultney I think as a child when you’re supposed to be egoic it’s actually pretty hard Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@Impish_Bunny yla and I once again proving to be the same person Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@GoddessOfSin666 thank you! I have a telehealth appt tonight :) Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@dheisman thank you!! Aug 11	1	0	0	0	—	400
@GoddessOfSin666 we all go back one way or another Aug 10	1	0	0	0	—	400
@veggiebat_ more! 😈 Aug 10	1	0	0	0	—	400
@shaggysurvives I stopped using YouTube because of it Aug 9	1	0	0	0	—	400
@GoddessOfSin666 holy Aug 9	1	0	0	0	—	400
@graveunfurling brb making baked Alaska Aug 8	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ChicEnAngelic lol it’s a real story of which I can even tag the other roommates of the house if you’d like Aug 7	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ChicEnAngelic like this happened in 2021, we lived together from 2022-2024. I literally watched him grow and take responsibility lol Aug 6	1	0	0	0	—	400
@zrkrlc 🫂 Aug 6	1	0	0	0	—	400
@BowTieOrangeGuy to be fair I knew him for like three years prior to this happening Aug 6	1	0	0	0	—	400
@liziestar @bufffakecel oh wow, so your answer really was to ruin his career the whole time Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@frost_jaso65076 I think it’s really cute that you had to repost your own reply. dw, I’ll be praying for you 🙏 Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@veggiebat_ yeah Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@QiaochuYuan I sent this tweet right before I went to bed Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@Jeffro_Metal well it’s a good thing I’m a human then Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@sheherenow_ karpman drama tria— wait a second Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@Tobmood yes Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@cxgonzalez I’ve been getting into a gym routine! Good to know Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@ThinkingBone misbies have the best content Aug 5	1	0	0	0	—	400
@NathanpmYoung ratsoup Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@_space_punk_ how do you learn to smile without collapsing around it? Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@kidcorvid @FireEyes66 probably! Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@SomeBrashAtom It was like this in DC too Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@vsghtam that’s kind of the thing though, isn’t it? no one is supposed to hold all of someone else’s shame. Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@demiurgently let’s party drinking fruity zero abv juice drinks Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@eligaultney brb, making plans to make plans Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
oh man 🫂I had a partner who had pretty bad ED. I was open to a lot of alternatives than just like PiV sex, but he had a whole bunch of hang ups about it and refused to try other things… which lo and behold left me unsatisfied. I was perfectly fine with like… idk mutual masturbation or him buying me a very nice vibrator, but his vehemence against it is what finally turned me off. He said it was about “my pleasure” but if it was actually about my pleasure than I was perfectly fine getting kinky with it, and I thought no less of him. I can’t promise everyone will be like that, but I bet that there are plenty of people who would love you in a similar way Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@TKPullinger moms have good advice!! Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@EzhnoMojo uh oh Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@samlowen5105 I appreciate it!! Good advice Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@fuccboihermit2 jump in and find out Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@danteiguessrigh yes Aug 4	1	0	0	0	—	400
@kenthecowboy_ https://t.co/zrznnyeZ9N Aug 30	0	0	0	0	—	300
@sheherenow_ 😳 Aug 29	0	0	0	0	—	300
@GoddessOfSin666 @AriZerner oooo!!! I plan to play that once I’m done with this replay Aug 27	0	0	0	0	—	300
@sheherenow_ we only have 4 colors in urban design now Aug 27	0	0	0	0	—	300
@jonkler4533 I lived with a guy (who had sexually assaulted me) for a few years after it happened. Everyone is losing their fucking minds because I didn’t add a comma Aug 24	0	0	0	0	—	300
Wow that’s so crazy because he didn’t. He assaulted me once while drunk after knowing me for years. I decided to be kind to my friend instead of punative, and he never assaulted anyone after. I know, I still keep tabs on him. He still went into a depression spiral of shame and regret bc he hurt his friend. He got fired from his job and practically drank himself to death in guilt. This isn’t some situation where I’m forgiving some serial rapist. Aug 24	0	0	0	0	—	300
@michaeltong_ last summer :) Aug 21	0	0	0	0	—	300
@MistressFia yay! Aug 20	0	0	0	0	—	300
@NathanpmYoung @DanielleFong @paulg @History__Speaks @iskanderlee these are nice compliments ♥️ Aug 17	0	0	0	0	—	300
@AugustineFacts so you’re saying I have an outsized impact on people 😎 Aug 16	0	0	0	0	—	300
@AriZerner @adastroworld I’m an old crone 😭 Aug 16	0	0	0	0	—	300
I’m getting the craziest ads https://t.co/m6yNghoOcV Aug 14	0	0	0	0	—	300
wow, i dictated this message instead of typing it, and I'm now reading which words are missing -undercount myself Aug 11	0	0	0	0	—	300
@scriptK80 *face Aug 10	0	0	0	0	—	300
@plutotfolie I think I am okay, but thank you for your opinion Aug 8	0	0	0	0	—	300
@animalologist hi taco Aug 8	0	0	0	0	—	300
@ChicEnAngelic ??? I mean I’m happy to get on a video call and explain it again but girl it’s true Aug 7	0	0	0	0	—	300
@dr_lugubrious no, you I’d shoot Aug 6	0	0	0	0	—	300
@fitnessfeelingz @TakeThiamine well, I don’t know if the allow guns in Copeville but how about a duel at dawn to decide the matter? Aug 5	0	0	0	0	—	300
@sheherenow_ 🥹 Aug 5	0	0	0	0	—	300
@sheherenow_ this happened last week when I met up with a college friend I hadn’t seen in several years. 💀 great impetus to stop Aug 4	0	0	0	0	—	300
@seanta___ dm me your email! Aug 3	0	0	0	0	—	300
Total · 549 tweets in September 2026	6,017	76	733	57	13 boosted	1,008,100

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